Sex: Fact and Fiction
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What’s the average penis size? How fast is
premature ejaculation? Exactly where is the G-spot? Grab a ruler and a
stopwatch as the experts sort sex myths from the facts.
Reviewed by
Brunilda Nazario, MD
If there were a roll call for the founding
fathers of sex myths for men, a couple of no-brainers would surely make
the list: porn legend John Holmes, whose yule-log-size penis still casts a shadow over anxiety-prone males. Ditto NBA-great Wilt Chamberlain, whose claim of having slept with 20,000 women makes Don Juan look monastic.
And then there's purveyor-of-sex-myths Walt Disney.
"I think Walt Disney creates a lot of mythology,"
says Seth Prosterman, PhD, a clinical sexologist and licensed marriage
and family therapist practicing in San Francisco. "In Disney movies,
people fall in love and walk into the sunset, and you get this myth that
intimacy is a given once you fall in love, and sexuality is natural and follows that."
In reality, says Prosterman, "Sex is something that we learn throughout a lifetime."
If sexuality is a continuing education, a lot of
us are scrambling to make up course credits. And in a realm that's
clouded by ego, myth and advertising that preys on anxieties, getting
the facts about sex can be difficult. What is the average size of the
male penis?
How long do most men last during intercourse? Can men have multiple
orgasms? Does the G-spot exist, and if so, how do I find it?
(Need to talk to the guys about something? Check out the Men's Health: Man-to-Man message board for straight talk.)
Penis Size: The Hard Facts
"Drastically enlarge the penis length and width to
sizes previously thought impossible!" reads a website for the Penis
Enlargement Patch. (One envisions a lab-coated mad scientist pouring
chemicals on his own penis, then shouting "Eureka!" and phoning the Guinness Book.)
Almost anyone with an email account has been deluged by spam for such
miracle-growth patches and pills, and the endurance of sex myths may
explain the pervasiveness of such ads.
"We equate masculinity and power with penis size,"
says Ira Sharlip, MD, clinical professor of urology at the University
of California at San Francisco and president of the International
Society for Sexual Medicine. "Of course, there's really no
relationship." Still, Sharlip says, "all" of his patients want to
increase their penis size.

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